Friday, September 23, 2011
How about a cup of truth and maybe an ounce of forgiveness?
Invisible Man wrote me a long, nice, explanatory email, hoping I will still be his friend. On one hand, I feel like a cad. But on the other hand, I'm very cautious.
It's tough. When do you know when to forgive? And if you forgive, can you forget?
I forgave Cactus Man overandoverandoverandoverandover. UNTIL, I realized it was just a game with him.
But like T. says, "I.M. isn't Cactus Man."
That's a tough, one too. To let go. I guess I still have relationship-P.T.S.D left over from Cactus Man. Sigh.